Comments for Social Smart

Comment on Been busy… by Bogs

Bogs — Fri, 17 May 2013 12:59:11 +0000

Thanks,

Yah, I find myself unusually busy lately. Summer going to be fun, hope it last longer

Comment on Been busy… by bossymoksie

bossymoksie — Thu, 16 May 2013 00:24:31 +0000

Good luck!
I am working on some things too that are distracting me from my blog. (And yes keeping most of it to myself for now).
All in the name of being better!

Comment on Deep rapport vs Wide rapport by Bogs

Bogs — Mon, 29 Apr 2013 12:41:31 +0000

Yes I try to keep my conversations as natural as possible, keeping it light and flirty overall and having couple topics more in depth.

Otherwise not worth talk to the girl if I don’t try to have a real interaction.

Comment on Deep rapport vs Wide rapport by bossymoksie

bossymoksie — Fri, 26 Apr 2013 22:53:48 +0000

I agree completely!
Although a meaningful conversation can make someone (man or woman) more memorable, no connection or interaction is built. And playful interaction that doesn’t go anywhere still may be memorable, but you don’t really care to get more interaction with that person because it was just superficial.
Very good point!
I noticed on some of your field report posts that you do this.

Comment on Deep rapport vs Wide rapport by Bogs

Bogs — Tue, 23 Apr 2013 12:12:09 +0000

Have it in moderation, we cannot go and create deep connections without it, but only deep rapport on itself is useless.

That’s one of the mistakes newbs do, they either keep it supper light without creating anything meaningful or they dig deep into one or two subjects and walk away with smile thinking they created amazing connection with another person, when in fact if they met again they would not have anything to talk about.

Comment on Deep rapport vs Wide rapport by Socialkenny

Socialkenny — Mon, 22 Apr 2013 22:25:09 +0000

A question. As for the deep rapport aspect, what should a guy do then? Just avoid deep rapport all together? I’m not saying I’m a fan of it, but what should we do instead?

Comment on NLP Sensory Acuity by Bogs

Bogs — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 14:41:31 +0000

Exactly, 3 most important ones. Because NLP largely deals with input and output and how information processed and mapped in our brain and used… they are the basics of NLP.

Without them, nothing possible.

I am planning on writing some articles (eventually? ) on how to use it for quick rapport building, behavior changes, modeling etc…

Comment on NLP Sensory Acuity by Socialkenny

Socialkenny — Fri, 19 Apr 2013 04:22:05 +0000

Never heard of the VAK before but it’s basically the 3 senses as relates to this field. At least the 3 most important senses.

Comment on NLP with negative people by Bogs

Bogs — Sun, 14 Apr 2013 00:40:09 +0000

Me too

I try to keep my life as drama free as possible, but sometimes you cannot avoid such people.

Comment on NLP with negative people by bossymoksie

bossymoksie — Fri, 12 Apr 2013 20:25:13 +0000

Yeah, it’s hard to deal with negative people, whether they know it or not, they bring other people down (or try to).
I try to avoid those people. Or I try to keep it positive…for my sake!