I am going to keep it short, and to the essence.
Have you ever wondered what would happen if you could change the way you speak and interact with people? I think many people underestimate the value good tonality and words we use, and the language patterns we follow. Have you wondered what changes it could bring to your life?
I think most attractive and selling point of SS is that if you can make women feel end experience emotions like no other man in her life managed, than you are going to have a monopoly on her.
If there is a really good explanation about the SS subject in a nice, clean and structured way where everything put in one place than SS Technical Manual is probably this kind of product. To be honest I never saw anything as detailed and as well organized between all the PUA products like this product.
He starts the products with very good and detailed explanation of differences between consciousness and sub consciousness. I especially liked his explanation why sub consciousness reacts on the processes, symbols and images and explains why consciousness does not, it gives a nice perspective how and why things related to SS are working. It is a pretty long part of program and occasionally it felt like he is a bit overdoing it, like he repeats the same information from a different perspective of thing. Nerveless it contained a lot of useful info, and was a good way to start the subject.
Had another slow Saturday, but actually think I run a best direct game that I ever done, I brought a good level of positive and calm energy in every set I approach, had very solid body language and just engaged girl like it is not a big deal. Did some of my approaches in mall (went inside to grab a coffee and bite, and some street approaches).
I think my skills got improved because of my improv class, which I can see why. Every single class we do eye contact and body mirroring, exercises to come up with things on spot and follow our emotions and feelings and create characters and scenes, as well as matching other people level of energy. And of course talk in descriptive language that expresses yourself.
I felt really comfortable approaching and talking today or talking to ones who happened to be in proximity, it really felt like it is a not big deal and a very natural thing to do.
Had zero AA, like completely natural.
Unfortunately I run into chicks that were on the run or taken or did not speak English, opened a total of 6 girls today.
Two interesting approaches.
I guess this post is reflection of what goes trough my mind lately.
I just finished the Dave Riker – Speed Seduction Technical Manual and in all honesty it is probably the most detailed and organized product I ever seen, I really liked this one. I will be writing a review once I get a bit more time.
I have been thinking a lot about things and reflecting, I have been in game for a year now and even trough in the beginning it was about getting girls, it became just journey and the goal is to improve myself, to be my best self whatever it might be.
Remember I was talking about women responding to feelings and emotions, I have been looking a bit into R Jeffries videos and stumbled upon this one. Funny enough he says exactly what I was thinking and I found his video only afterwards.
As promised a little out of nowhere update, I am not sure if it worth posting. Here goes nothing.
After getting not interested response from her last time, I just decided to cut it off and move on.
Five days pass by and on Monday evening around 5pm I get sudden text from her, asking me if I am coming to class today. I said no I am not coming to the old place; she saying to me she is not coming either. I tell her I am going to try out a new place, she starts asking what time and the address, says she is with friend now but she might be able to make it (I surely not invited her lol), I say Ok and we finish the conversation.
Ten minutes later she is texting me again saying she cannot make it, but asks me to text her next day and let he know how it went. I reply with ok, wish her good evening and tell her to have a drink for me too.
Next day I text her, it went like that:
I cannot wait to start my improv program classes this upcoming Saturday.
I went yesterday to the place to their walk in improv class and it was incredible, it’s been long time since I laughed so much as I did yesterday. The teacher was amazing, she knew exactly what to do, how to create right energy and lead people while making them laugh their guts off lol
This class was for sure much better than the class I was taking in previous place; the instructor was more fun, and most importantly more professional. So from now on if I go for walk in it’s going to be this new place.
Now when my verbal skills starting to visibly improve (i can see results all across the place and having solid plan for 1 year on how to take them to next level) I started looking into NLP and speed seduction. I think it is very good idea to develop both of them at same time this way I will not need to reshape my verbal skills.
The reason I looked into speed seduction is because let’s face it women get moved by emotions and feelings that they get, and speed seduction is exactly that it alows to create those emotions. I think the tradition community way of thinking how do I make her to sleep with me, or go on date with me or kiss me or do whatever with me is a wrong way. I think the right way to think is what are the emotional states and states of minds I have to create so she will want to give me all those mentioned things.
On a related note; Many people in community has that weird idea that SS (speed seduction) is something wrong and it’s like it is like manipulating another person feelings. I however disagree, I think if it comes from right place, it is a gift that you can give to girl to experience feelings and emotions and deepness of them, she never experienced before.
So to keep long story short, I sat yesterday and outlined material (specific order of books and videos) and plans on how to practice both at same time.
P.S: I have some updates about the Kurdish ballet chick, but I don’t want to mix it in same post and will post them in another time.