Saturday rolls in and as per previous plan I decide to go and do some street sarging. I leave home early, go to central subway station and start walking from there to Lake Beach, it is about 40-50 minutes’ walk and the idea is approach chicks if I see any.
As I walk and cannot find anyone to approach, until I stumble at some event, there like 2 roads between intersection being closed and lots and lots of people, I decide to stay and make at least 5 approaches and then go to the lake.
It is an early afternoon, like 12:30PM and I don’t see any chicks by themselves for some time, so I find place in most crowded area and sit and wait. Eventually I spot some chick she walks past by me speaking on her cell, I let her pass just to see her 5 minutes after passing by me again, I go after her, approach and open but come off with weak voice and presence and she just brushes me off. I leave and go back to my sitting spot.
Sometime after I am tired of sitting and start wandering around place, I spot another chick, it is hard to decide her age but she looks over 18. I made a mistake of walking after her for a bit before approaching, she gives me eye contact twice and puts her eyes down every single time, she also walks twice in very close proximity from me, and eventually I open her. It is same deal as with the previous chick. But, this one stays and talks, after short time I introduce myself we shake hands and I asks her for her name. She says she doesn’t know, I joke she doesn’t know her name, but she says no she doesn’t know if she should tell me that. I am confused and quite surprised, she did not say it in a rude way, but it still came off a bit rude of her. I tell her to have a good day and turn around. She starts quickly talk something but I don’t even turn around I just walk away.
Not sure what it was about, maybe it was shit test or maybe she just felt bad for being rude.
Short afterward I see a girl with huge bag on her shoulders standing in corner and waiting for someone, she looks like a tourist; I go to talk to her. I get a very good response, but she says she is waiting for bf to come out of the office. The interaction feels very good especially after my two previous failed approaches.
I keep wandering in the place and then decide go have a smoke on a pedestrian walk beside all the shopping tents. I finish my cigarette, drink water and see some Indian girl passes me. I give her chase and approach her, she turns around and I get good response, but the moment I takes her sun glasses off I realize she is probably no more than HB6, we talk a bit but the conversation was boring, we talked about physics and hydro and engineering (wtf is wrong with me). I know it is not solid set, but still go for the number she says she will be very busy and there is no chance to find time for the coffee, it is obviously BS, but I don’t mind. Wish her good day and leave.
I go back to my smoking place and decide I am going to stay there and just approach chicks that pass by. 3-5 minutes later I spot what will become my best set of the day.
HB Model (hb10)
She looks super gorgeous in her summer dress and about 21-22 years old. She passes me walking quickly and we make short eye contact, I consider approaching her and starting walking after her. She turn her head sees me walking in her direction and slows down her walk as I come closer she stops completely doing something on her iPod, but I sense she waits for me. I go and approach.
She takes her head phones off, leaning to me heavily and listens to my opener, I got like her 100% of attention. She is blushing and smiles big, we exchange names and shake hands, as I about to take my hand off, I realize she keeps it holding and doesn’t lets my hand go.
She is absolutely stunning, and it is first time when I actually got intimidated by a women look. We start talking and I ask what brings her to the area, she says she was just walking around and then stumbled upon some modeling studio and they asked to take few pics of her and told her they will be for sure in contact.
We spoke holding hands the whole conversation, she leaned heavily and kept eye contact like no other girl ever did. Unfortunately during conversation she slips and tells me she is actually only 17 and still goes to high school. Disappointed I stop the conversation, wrap her around with my hands and give her strong hug, wish her good day and we walk apart. When she was walking away she turned like 3 times and looked on me.
On a funny note, she behaved very mature, and was confident, I actually think out of two of us she was the confident one lol. Shame on me.
After that I am done with my 5 approaches and start walking toward the lake. I straggle to find anyone especially after this hot last chick. I look around and no one even comparable to her.
I go to lake and still see nothing, by this time I waster like 1.5 hours of walking and looking around, make a small round around and leave home.
I plan to stick to street sarge, I like the environment better, I also think in terms of approaching it puts me in better mind set, because sarging on street forces you to approach in different situations and will make it more natural to approach as my day go.
Either way I plan to give mall a break for the rest of the summer until weather get worse. I am planning to sarge on streets from now on.
Still have long way to go with my physical escalation and verbal. I might start going route of my own scripted material, I remember when I was doing indirect and used routines I had very good conversations. It is a time to review it again.
Will plan better sarging plans for the next time I sarge streets, it is very tiring to walk around and I think it is just makes much more since to stay in busy place and just approach girls who passes on. I made only 5 approaches in like 3 hours, out of it wasted 2 walking around and hitting places empty from people. Gotta select location next time and stick to it.