I went to sarge today and it hit me, I have to step up the amount of approaches I do.
The thing is this approaching is easy, and when I am in the “mood” it is like a second nature to me go and talk to random cute girl who happened to be in my vicinity. But, since I started rolling solo some time ago I am having problem to have the social momentum rolling. Every time I am in the field it takes me like 40-60 minutes to start rolling and approaching, it is not like I have AA or anything, its just that I don’t feel like doing it. Once I done one or two approaches than that’s it, I get the taste of excitement and my spirits are up and I am on a roll again.
So it is time to start move faster, one of the ideas of sarging solo was to be my own boss and to have more flexibility and most importantly. Sure, every time I go out I do approaches like 5-6, but I know I can do better.
Anyways, back to the report…
Went to sarge today and yesterday, did total of around 7 approaches for two days. Yesterday was super tired and actually called it day off after two approaches.
But, today coming to mall, I was amazed with how many people came out. We are having long weekend and it is like whole Toronto had nothing to do and came out, and the mall was the place to go lol. I grab my coffee and and start immersing myself into the mall to feel the environment, when I realize that despite so many people, the mall is actually bad. It is like all the families came out, and all the chicks came with their friends. None of my target audience was there. Damn lol
Time wise I made terrible for the first hour and very good for the second hour. The first hour I spent getting myself in the mood, and the second hour I actually approached the 5 chicks that I approached in my short two hour sarge. Not much happened during the approaches themselves got chicks who don’t speak English, another one got scared, another one was so busy with her phone that I told her “Seems like you really busy, so I will let you go” and politely left, and with another one had a good conversation but it did not lead nowhere.
Also, met my previous wing in the mall, came over like twice to say hi, it is good to see him coming out and sarging. But over all I did not stack around with them and did my own thing.
That’s pretty much concludes how my day went.
I usually write cumulative report, but this time around I decided to write now, so tomorrow when I go out, I am going to remember it.
Approach more and get the ball rolling earlier, basically as soon as I step at the venue. I am good at the approaching and getting into interactions, but I have to change the way how my sarging habits go.
Get more kino and more escalation going on.