Flake and future plans
Flake and future plans
This is report from last Saturday and some of my wants for future.
Update on HB7.5 :
I never heard from her or saw her again, she flaked. Evening prior to this I was thinking about the situation and came to conclusion that there only so much you can do to make close decent, but from the moment you let her go to the moment you going to see her again (possibly) this time is out of my control whatsoever. I decided that while I would like to meet her, I am ok if she flakes, I am happy with my interaction with her and if she flakes it simply means that I will have success with a next girl or girl after next.
I arrived at the mall 10 minutes before meeting her, and 20 minutes past scheduled time when she did not call and did not come, I just moved on and went to sarge. Unfortunately I straggled with finding targets and found only 2 girls to approach, and left after an hour because the mall simply was not so great.
So there is not much to say about this day.
Where I want to go and just thoughts
The more time I go out, the more I start to realize what I want out of it and what needs to be done to improve.
One of the things I want is to transition from picking up girl during the sarge only to picking up girls anywhere I notice a good looking girl. I still plan to and have sarging sessions as it is great time to experiment and test, but lately I been feeling growing urge to sarge just everywhere.
I just feel that I want to start meeting girls anywhere the opportunity presents rather than only during sarge. I like Vince Kelvin style and how social he is; also his style seems to very close to what actually works for me, add to it that he is short (probably shorter than me, and is in his middle 50’s and bangs young chicks) so I want to go more with this direction.
I also need to learn to be flirty more, I am currently happy with my approaches and body language, but I do often slip into boring conversations and lose sets for it, I need to stop do it.
I need to concentrate more on insta dates, with my latest flake I realized it is probably easier to sleep with girl same day (if she into you) than take her number and try to get her out to meet. I think insta-dates are a good middle ground for this.
If I needed to give short version of my wants: I want to become more social and flirty with girls and meet them anywhere as I go with my life.
Wow,this is a very shitty situation bro’.
Throughout the whole 2011,9 out of every 10 girls I’d #- closed flaked on me.I made a resolution that 2012 would b a year of no fucking flakes.So far,I’ve been flaked on 2 times by 1 girl for the year.
The HB7.5 felt like really solid close, she seemed so into me that at some point I even got a bit scared, like she was totally into me. And then next day nothing, total silence! lol
I usually don’t go anymore for # close if I don’t think interaction was not solid, I think your approaches and game get good it is easier for chick to give number than resist to it, but it also means she has no intentions to answer or meet, basically before I take # I try to evaluate if it is going to be genuine number or extractions.
Great point in not going for # close if the interaction wasn’t solid.A lot of guys still make the mistake of rushing for the # without a solid chat.
BTW,you can check out that short post here(about the girl I’d picked up the other day who flaked).http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/2012/01/26/socialkennys-video-blogbar-girl-update/
I will check it out
Dont worry about the flakes, keep gng you are leading my example!!!
http://thecaptainpower.blogspot.com/2012/01/staying-home-is-disease.html?utm_source=BP_recent
I don’t really worry, just trying to get better and reduce it as much as possible. There of course always will be some percentage of flakes.
Thanks for the link.
focus on making your first interactions more solid. you cant avoid flakes all together… even my best friends flake me sometimes lol. but depending on how you run initial game can definitely affect the amount of girls that flake.
Thanks. I been thinking same thing, flakes will probably always be, but most likely can be reduced significantly. I have been watching your video on domino effect and think your idea of creating romantic connection in the initial approach is great for street approach and flake prevention.
It is definitely something I am looking to incorporate into my game as well.
Yea Justin got that down packed.