Three weeks in row.
(Weekend sarging report 27-28.01.2012)
It’s been three weeks in row that my sarging resulted in some solid # close or possible meet, I definitely hope that it is due my improvements and all the work I put into getting better and not just luck.
I spent entire last week catching up on theory, not so much on how to approach, but more on a part of verbal game, given that I dislike routines or anything scripted (unless it taken from my own life) I spent most of my learning on improvisation and even touched some SS (speed seduction) learning and practicing exercises. I am not finished yet, but the results were positive so far.
Planning on continuing sticking and improving with SS and improvisation, because they will increase my communication abilities and skills, which is very important for the cold day game approach.
As per usual I went out to sarge on Friday and Saturday and made total of 12 approaches.
Went out and did 6 approaches, the mall was empty, so I went on doing approaches for the sake of approaches just to not feel that I came there and just wasted my Friday evening. So I just approached those few chicks that I was able to find without much consideration for the target selection. To make matter worse I was really tired and just wanted to put some approaches and get out of there as fast as I can.
As predicted the thing went so so, and nothing stack out beside one of the approaches when chick gave me a face like I came to ask her for the money. I just smiled and ejected and continued to going on with my day when two minutes later I turn around and realize she is following me, pretty creepy lol
Completely different story than Friday, I got a good sleep and rested well and came to mall full of energy. While walking there met my wing and we walked a bit together.
The first approach of the day was some blonde chick that looked very good from far, but as I approached her actually much older and not attractive at all, so I switch to indirect.
Two next one I get polite thank you and one of them told she doesn’t want a compliment, I reframed and joked with both of them and they both laughed, but I ended up ejecting, if chick is not interested than I don’t feel like staying there and convincing her otherwise, considering that the next good set might be a minute of time away from this one.
Another one is blow out, I failed to close the distance gap while approaching and as per usual it simply did not go nowhere.
This is young chick (around 18 years old) from Bangladesh, very good looking and studying accounting. Had a very good conversation with her, joked a lot around and I even mini isolated her. My whole weeks of practicing improvisation kicked in, and I felt like I could talk for hours and never run out of things to say and be able to keep it light and flirty. Had a really good time talking to her for like 10-15 minutes, she seemed very into it.
I was so sure that the number close will be easy with her, that I was surprised when she said she comes from very strict family and is not allowed to give her numbers away or meet with guys. I just told her it is ok and would not want her number unless she comfortably with it, and that she has nothing to worry. She said no it is not this, and went to whole explaining herself why she cannot, but basically point was that she could get into serious trouble if she would give me her number.
I parted on a good terms with her, and think it was a successful sarge.
She is last set of the day, she is really good looking and seemed to be a highly educated and intelligent chick, I usually always run into problems sarging those one. She is what somebody refers as VIP (very intelligent pussy lol). She walks with the traveling briefcase, I approach her, she stops and turns fully to me, she is also confidently shakes my hand, I make a note that she is possibly confident and are high self-esteem chick, joked about brief case and how small it is and she cannot possibly go far with such a small language. She was on her way to Montreal for couple days.
It appears she is from Brazil, but right now here visiting some of her family. I had a really good interaction with it, there were moments where we laughed without stopping, I even managed to try some NLP stuff on her by anchoring those good and fun moments to myself and anchoring how it is good and positive thing to meet people (me). I was quite surprising how she reacted, her behavior that was very good to me turned to be even better.
Unfortunately I missed on building comfort and qualifying her, I did those things a bit, but i know it was not enough. At one point she started touching me and asking all those questions and revealing information about herself, she seemed to be making genuine effort to get to know me, but I did not recognize it at the moment. Definitely something I am going to give attention from now on and adjust strategy accordingly.
At the end of 20 minutes interaction told her that we have to at least meet before she goes back to Brazil, she told me she will be coming back to visit after a while and it is not going to be our only one meet.
Took her number, and texted her 10 minutes after, got a good response. The plan is to hit her back on Friday when she comes back and take it from there.
All in all almost got two numbers out of 6 approaches, which reminds me it doesn’t matter how current set going, because the next one, good one is just around corner.
PS: The update on HBFeminist comming soon.