Cumulative report for last 4 sarges on holidays

It’s been while since I posted FR, I just got super busy and couldn’t be bother by writing report, will keep this one to be short as well.

Before I start with my FR I think I made another step forward in my daygame, I noticed that most of chicks from my last sarges would close proximity with me, and some even initiated touching on their own. I still have a hard time to believe that this is happening.

Over all I went out 4 times, twice because I just needed to do something in the mall, and twice to actually sarge. The last two times been not so good despite the holidays, it was almost like no chick would go to the mall and everybody left the city, was surprized how mall was not busy.

But the first two times were good, after I finished doing what I had to do I stayed like for an hour and half and approached 3 chicks, the second time I stayed for 40 minutes and approached 4 chicks.

Over all approached around 12-15 targets (really did not count, but based on partial notes on my iphone it is not less than 12), and spent minimum time wasting in the place.

Got into some interesting conversation, now when I am not worried about wing waiting for me, I actually try to connect with those chicks and create some emotions for both of us, it seems to be working even better than I expected. As I mentioned I noticed chicks started to close proximity to me during conversation, and I got few times kino initiated by girl herself (touching my arms and hands). I am still at chocks that it is actually happening to me.

Anyways, back to approaches, most chicks stopped and talked and I had good conversation going on, but I will post only 3 that had actually interesting to me.

HB9

This is amazingly gorgeous Iranian girl from California, who is visiting her relatives in Canada. Right as I heard it I decided not to go for Facebook or # close, since it is never worked for me and beside I am not interested in keeping a contact with a chick that I possibly will never see again. Either way despite this decision I had a good 20 minutes conversation with her, when it was time to leave I got creative:

Me: you know I really dig you, and under normal conditions would not think twice to ask for your number. But, because we live so far away I will just leave it at this, an interesting conversation that will live in our memories, between two amazing strangers. And I hope it’s made your day as it’s made mine.

As I turn around to walk away, she makes a move as to grab my hand but than just touches my fingers and makes step toward me so close that I could feel her breathing on my face.

I walk away kind of freaked out a bit realizing it happened in cold approach in a day light in middle of freaking busy malls walkway.

HB8.5

This is another Iranian girl (yah I dig Middle Eastern chicks a lot), who I approached previously lol. Of course at the time of approach I did not realize it until it was in middle of conversation and we exchanged names (she has very rare name that I never heard before) and what we do for leaving. Once I discover that I opened previously I decide to keep it cool and do a better job at connecting with her than I did previously. Besides, he pretended like she saw me in a first time in her life and was very engaged in conversation with me talking quite a lot. I had a very good conversation with her, but being embarrassed approaching same chick twice with same opener I did not dare to go for number close.

I still think I did a much better job this time, than the last time I approached her, she actually made step toward me to be closer and few times touched me on my shoulders.  It’s looked like she really enjoyed talking to me.

HB7

This one is cute polish girl, I stop her in middle of mall she gets freaked out, I calm her and we start talking. Without going too much into details on this one, let’s just say by the time I went for the # close I was very positive that it would be an easy close and a solid one, lots of touching on both sides, very strong eye contact and good body proximity with lost of IOI’s on her side.

Her response killed me.

Her: you know, I been approached in past in same very mall and asked for number few times. I gave it first time and it did not work out, after this time I decided not give my contact information away.

I make a joke about it and leave thinking she got over sarged lol

P.S: I posted it to be dated in December 2011, as it is a time when sarging took place.

Short recap of weekend

(16.12.2011 and 17.12.2011)

As per title this is going to be a just short recap or my weekend sarge. Over all I made a bunch of approaches (23 approaches, 9 on Friday and 14 on Saturday), got into some decent conversation.

It is interesting, but the closer holidays come, the more unusual amount of “I am married” or “have bf” type of responses I hear from chicks, especially it was on Saturday. It is also seems that amount of chicks who don’t speak English is fairly high. Like on a Friday out of 9 approaches I did 3 of them were Asian chicks who did not speak English.

I also seem to lose the spark, I mean I approach chicks, but I somehow not excited about them, just attracted and horny. I obviously got in some decent conversations with at least half of chicks I approached, in some case I even mini isolate them like moving them on a side from moving crowded area, but I am not flirty or touchy with them. I been doing it long enough to know, than unless you bring sexual vibe the interaction going to be just that friendly interaction that she just had with some random guy who she never intend to see again.

I also have been toying with the idea of starting going solo lately I feel like my time will be used more efficiently that way. My wing was bringing some random people this past weekend, and on Saturday I decided to go solo rather than with company of 6 people (imagine 6 people walking together in the mall) and to be honest I loved it a lot.

So basically from now on, I am going to sarge solo I think the flexibility and efficiency of time management well worth it, given that I don’t have the AA anymore and my approaching is actually decent I think sarging solo will be very beneficial for me and progress of my game.

Out of all the approaches on weekend, one stood for me.

HB8

She is the last approach on Saturday; she is a gorgeous Asian chick. I approach her and strike a conversation, we speak for a bit and I move her aside from crowded area and continue to talk. It seems going with moderate rate and after some debating with myself I decide to still go for a number close.

She says she doesn’t remember her phone number, turns her phone and gives number. I am telling her let me call you so you can have mine as well and ring her number. She says the phone is off now, I joke with her that girl will never have her phone off, but also at same moment realize that # is probably 99.9% fake.

I walk from her and two minutes later my phone is ringing, the display shows her number, I answer and some guy on other end tells me that he just received a call from my number lol, I tell him sorry and that I just dialled wrong number couple minutes ago while trying to call my friend.

I go ahead and remove her number from my contacts.

Some time passes, I am already done with sarging and I am sitting home, when my phone rings again, it is her number again lol, I answer and it is actually her, wtf lol

I decide something weird goes on, and after exchanging few words with her, tell her I am about to go and sleep and we disconnect.

Obviously I don’t have any plans to call her ever, it just that situation is weird. I always seems to get myself into something like that.

PUA Variance

(Saturday 11.12.2011)

I arrive at mall and find my wing and another guys with whom I once sarged. I played poker the whole morning and did not eat and feel somewhat tired. I kind of know it is not going to be well today, but still decide to grind it out.

We start walking and I make an approach and get blown out, it’s been a while since I got blown out like in my old days, I make 3 more and get blown out in all of them. It is also doesn’t help that new guy is mostly talking and seems like not there to approach anyone. Him and my wing would stop somewhere and turn around away from crowd and talk about some random things. Basically it was me and 2 guys that tag along and do nothing.

I decide to shrug it off, take a break and eat something and come back and sarge more. I go outside and grab some hotdog, eat it quickly and go back into mall. I re-join my wing and other guy and soon after make an approach on some Asian chick that were standing and looking on shoes.

She is very receptive and we chat a bit, but shortly after tell me she got a bf that is around, but says that I really made her day, I wish her a good day and eject. My wing jokes that hotdog made all the difference lol.

Next approach chick tells me she is really sorry because she is late to the work and that she had a bf.  Next two don’t speak English, one was an Asian chick and one was some Spanish.

The next one pretty funny, I notice this hot skinny chick and approach her, she stops smiles, once I finished with opener and introduce myself, she switches to Russian lol. She says “Thank you very much, I am very sorry but I cannot even talk to you because I have a bf” lol, I wish her good day and move on.

The next one some polish chick who was very weird and I just ejected myself, another one is some shy chick, smiled, thanked and walked away.

The next target is very responsive and stays and talk and we very good conversation going on, she is very smart and studies PHD in biology. Once I am going for the #close she says she is married (still took every bit of attention she could lol), I say BS show me the ring. She shows, I laugh and say it’s fair enough and the compliment is still very well deserved.

My last target is in rush and runs away.

All in all ok day, 13 approaches and good practice, I feel like my approaches in a good place now, and I just need do it more and improve my other post approach skills. Made some solid kino with chicks that actually stayed to talk.

P.S: Next week I am starting 2 weeks off from work, the plan is to go 3 times a week and approach. Also talked to my wing about the new guy and seems like it was good motivation for him, because he did at least as much approaches as me.

Holidays are strange.

(Friday 09.12.2011)

I did not go to sarge as planned on Wednesday, felt so tired that decided to get some serious rest and go to sarge solo on Friday. Thursday comes and my wing msg me and says he can be at mall at 4:30PM on Friday and if I want to go, the answer is of course.

Overall for this sarge I made 7 approaches mixed direct with indirect.

As I arrive at mall I realize that for some reason I have strong AA, I am like wtf I never get it anymore, how come suddenly it gets to me. It takes a good hour to make a first approach and I passed on some good targets.

HB8

She is an Asian chick I stop her at middle of walkway, I am a bit shaking from the AA, stumble at opener, but never less she stops and we talk a bit, she says she is on her way to meet parents, I am kind of nervous and she is shy and nervous as well (probably because I was same lol), so I tell her that I better let her go and eject.

HB7.5

I go out to smoke and as per usual go and ask lighter from the best looking chick around. Once I lighten cigarettes I am not going away and start talking to her, telling her that she looks like someone who works there and is now sitting on her break, she says no and that she is just came to shopping. I ask her where she is from, she is from Japan and we talk a bit about it. I also introduced my wing but once he said hi he turned around and not spoke a single word during the whole conversation with her, which kind of sucks because it reflects badly on me, as he probably could DHV me there. I and she keep talking; she finishes her cigarette, but keep sitting and talking to me I realize she is interested. Finally she is about to leave and I go for # close.

She starting laughing, comes very close to me and taps me on a shoulder few times, says firstly no, but then changes herself by saying “sure if I see you around” and slowly walked away.

Looking back, I probably messed this one up, it was much better to let her walk away a bit and run after her and then go for # close instead of doing it right there in front of all those people and my wing sitting awkwardly there lol, I probably even after she walked away still could give her a chase.

HB8

We walk back into mall and shortly after I make another approach. She is Middle Eastern gorgeous girl from Egypt but was born in Canada; I joke around and tell her we are neighbours and that I used to live in Israel. The conversation went great I was flirty and touchy, but when the time came for # close she said she is sorry but she has a bf and actually engaged. Seems to me she still loved to get attention and took every second to enjoy it.

The next one was an older woman who for some reason looked younger, I approach her she turns around and smile, I realize she is older and switch to indirect, it must be came incongruent because she had this wtf look, I laugh on it and tell her “yes I know, it is probably looks weird that I go to you to ask this, but I have been looking for this store for a while and honestly getting a bit desperate”, she buys it, smiles and actually tries to help. I eject shortly after.

Seems like my calibration getting a bit better and I am quicker on my feet’s than used to be.

Some time passes, me and my wing stand and talk when I see this Asian chick beside as who stands surprisingly close and text something on her phone. I give my wing look, but he says no you can go for it. I turn around and open her commenting how it crazy that there so many people in the mall and it is so crowded.

HB6.5

She is receptive and we start conversation. It appears that she is Chinese who is from Mexico (my wing is Chinese and he was “wtf did they lost in Mexico lol”, I was very surprised myself. We start talking and the conversation goes great, she is the second most receptive girl from the entire day and seems a bit shy and inexperienced.

I was doing my usual strong eye contact and lots of touching mixing conversation between fun and some bits of serious talk to build attraction and comfort but mostly letting conversation to flow naturally just adjusting it course in desired direction.

In about 15 minutes into conversation I feel like it is time to go for # close since I am with wing and I cannot really bounce her for the insta date, and with that in mind I go for a # close:

Me: so what are you doing here?

Her: I wait for my friends we supposed to meet for a dinner and them late

Me: you should totally ditch them and just spend time with me

Her: (laughing) you probably right.

Me: listen, I really like a vibe between us we should meet for coffee sometime, I would like to get to know you

Her: yes ok, you can give me your phone number

Me: better you give me your phone and I will give you a call so you can have mine

Her: no, you give me your number and I will give you a call

I realize it is a beginning of the battle that I am unlikely to win.

Me: you going to call me right now?

Her: no, later in a week

Me: we both know it’s not going to happen

Her: why?

Me: you look like a shy girl, it is very unlikely that you call (I know, too much logic here)

Her: no I will

Me: I have a question to you, and I would like an honest answer

Her: yes

Me: (make a strong eye contact, turn toward her directly and completely relaxed and confident) I don’t want to have you phone if you never going to answer or even want to give it to me. So just tell me if you really want to meet and to get know me. If the answer is no, it is ok and it is quite normal and I will not take it in a wrong way and will not ask for your number ever again.

Her: I would like to meet you really, I am just being careful as I had a bad experience, I will call you I promise

Her:  (goes into some story how she been scammed by some guy for money in NYC)

Me: I am not him, I have an idea, I can give my grandma phone number, I am sure she can give me an excellent references and you can trust her (laughing)

She starts laughing, punches me few times on hand and shoulder and repeats her words about her being a girl and being just careful.

Me: how good you word are?

Her: very good, I always keep my word

Me: 100%?

Her: yes, I am going to give you a call on (gives exact date).

I know the conversation looks like a serious one, but most of the things been said in playful and flirty tone with a lot of smiles and laughing and during those last 3 minutes she initiated a lot of the kino on her own.

Looking back now, the chances are she will not call, either way they are probably no more than 10-20% and even that number most likely overly optimistic.

I eject and me and my wing going back to sarging again, I actually did not introduce him to my last set given how he was with previous one from Japan.

The next two targets are I approach and switch to indirect because one was way older than I expected and another one was not as attractive as I expected.

After a while (10-15 minutes later) mall gets emptier and we call it a day.

Recap:

Holidays seems to be mixed times, for some reason most of the chicks that make shopping either with family or bf, or already taken. Not sure yet what to make out of it.

Over all made 7 approaches that day in span of like 1.5-2 hours.

Lacking motivation again.

Damn, it happens way too often to me lately. This report is short recap for Saturday sarge.

Anyways, I just moved to new apt this Thursday and had a busy week, but got Saturday free and decided to go sarge with my wing.

Saturday comes, I am supper tired but still go to the mall since the sarge was on my schedule (I should stop doing it, should sarge only when I have a good energy for it). I arrive and shortly after my wing arrive too. We talk a bit and apparently he same tired as me, I tell him I am going to take it super slow today, he says he is going to do same lol.

We agree if  no approach will be made during the first hour, we going to just call it a day.

The hour passes I approach one chick and we decide to stay for a bit longer, than we spot Myzta, it was nice to see him after so long time.

My wing says he is ready to head home, so I text Myzta if he minds if I join him since my wing is leaving. Same time passes, my wing decides to stay.

Over all I made 4-5 approaches (first sarge that I did not really counted lol), I never got blown out and had nice and boring conversations, but couldn’t have bring that light and flirty energy into conversation.

The most interesting thing happened actually to my wing, he approached chick directly, opened her, and when she heard opener she went closer to him and gave him a hug. Lol

I guess that it.

On a side note, I am planning to go sarge Wednesday as well, since my wing works late it is going to be a solo sarging. I am looking quite forward to it, to see how it will go.