Married spanish chick, number close(October 18.10.2011)
It is a Tuesday and I and my wing meet again at the mall to do some approaches. As we start walking it appears that the place is dead and we might be once more like so many times before just wasting our time trying to sarge on a bad day.
It takes almost an hour of standing and walking before my wing points to some walking beauty, but she is too far and I tell him I will approach if we see her again, but I am not in mood to run half mall after some chick.
We change location and we see her again, this time close enough to walk over and approach, and I go for it.
She is a girl on a tall side of things and a very good looking one. She sees me walking to her direction and actually slows down (might be my imagination but I am sure it is not). I approach her very confidently and very solid and completely present. I open her with my usual opener and when she responds positively we start to talk.
At some moment of conversation I ask her what she is up to and try to guess that she is student who is walking around and looking for job or somebody who is working around and just went for small shopping after work. She confirms that she is students who looking for work.
Me: you know, I saw you walking past previously for a spit of moment and you looked so cute, but you was were far and so I said to myself that if I see you again I am definitely going over to say hi, and then I was standing there with my friend (pointing to wing) and suddenly you popped out again and I decided it is time to man up and do what I promised to myself. (Said very confidently with big smile at the end)
Her: (huge smile and eating it from spoon and obviously loving it).
The whole conversation lasted no more than 5 minutes and was very charged. She mentioned briefly that she was on her way to the class so I decided to go for number earlier, and got a bf line, switching it to Facebook gave no results too, she said she doesn’t use one (yah right).
Me: I know you for only few minutes and you already so hard on me (laughing)
Wish her to have a good day and eject.
I and wing walk just few matters when I spot another chick. She is walking a bit fast but I decide to go and open her, feeling pumped by my previous approach.
I open her and get very good reaction, positive and energetic. Her name is strange and I never heard anything like that. So I ask where she from, the answer is from Spain, and seems to be in her middle twenties.
I realize she is immigrant who probably misses her home and take an advantage of it. I talk about my recent vacation in Cuba just a week ago and how people so different and so friendlier, I also mention Dominican Republic, she loves the idea that I am traveling, and before we both know we talking about sea and beaches, and laughing that life feels better when you step outside and it is hot and sunny and it just puts smile on your face.
I go again on my saying that as I said I saw her passing by and she is so cute that I decided to man up and just come over and say hi (for some reason chicks really love to hear it, also probably puts me automatically for not being sleazy guy who just go to chicks to talk, but rather just a normal guy who liked her a lot).
I remember she was walking fast, so I go once again for the early # close, and tell her I will take to taste a best coffee in the city, it must be sounded scripted or something, because she looked on me strangely, I catch up on it and name the exact location of the place and even go a bit into explanation why I think their coffee taste better (note: true place, and coffee are the best I ever tasted) she convinced and gives a big smile.
She puts her number and instructs me on her work hours and when I can call or text, but says she prefer texts as it is easier for her to answer on them.
Once I get number I don’t plan to stay and talk longer, but I found that for me exchanging few more sentences before leaving works great, which I do and then eject.
Than me and my wing start walk again, it is getting late and mall has barely people. Two next approaches I do for sake of approaching and on some very random chicks and get blown out twice. I just did not want to feel like I wasted my time coming.
One of them is an Asian chick who was walking super-fast, I stop her and say hi, but she looks like she is about to leave, so I just asked her if she can stop for 6 seconds, she says she is very sorry but needs to run to meet her sister, I let her go, another one is an older woman who smiles and goes away.
I texted the Spanish chick same evening walking home from my sarging. No answer. She sends me answer next morning 8 o’clock and says that she is sorry and probably should not give me her number as she is actually married and her husband saw the message from me and got upset (lol).
I wished her not to be sorry for following her heart and living in the moment, wished her all good and to have a good day.
P.S: I wanted originally to include texts with her in the FR, but decided not to take chances for those texts to be found and make her life more complicated, so not gonna post them.
Remember that stunning Bangladeshi Muslim chick that are married and looked me up on Facebook, I contacted her yesterday after not contacting for nearly 2 month, to my surprise she was ecstatic to hear from me. Exchanged sms with her like for half of day not pushing for meeting (even though I mentioned it once and then dropped to not be needy) but just talking about traveling and vacations. Told her to keep in contact, to which she said she for sure will and told me not to disappear lol
Not sure why I messaged her and what to do with her, was just bored.
Only made 4 approaches in total, two of which are very good.
My game is definitely stepped a new level same as my confidence.