I finish my work and go to the mall as me and my wing scheduled some sarging together (now days I will mostly sarge solo since my wing vacation is over).
I arrive at mall and feel like I got some cold, my head is dizzy, voice is weak and bones in pain, and I consider cancelling the session for a minute, but then decided against better judgment to stay.
My wing arrives and we start sarging. We walk a bit and I make my first approach very weakly and get blown very harshly, I get back to my wing and tell him today going to be a blown out day, but it is going to be fun.
Shortly after, I spot a cute Asian girl and go after her. She stops, I open her and she cannot hear me, no problem, I close proximity to her, give her better eye contact and spell my opener again, she smiles so it is all good. Most of time when I fail to deliver opener or girl doesn’t hear me, it means she will blow me out.
We start talking it goes very well and she is slightly attracted, but then when I try to apply a kino I get that weird vibe from her and step back with the kino. Minute after I tell her let’s move on a side because we are right on the people path. We move and I notice a big increase in her attraction to me, it is funny how much as a noobs we underestimate such small things like mini isolation and leading. Five minutes into conversation I go for number close and get a bf line, I go with my usual routine against it but it is no go, she offers Facebook and when I decline offers to take my phone and say she will message me. I am sick and tired, I just tell her it is ok to finish this conversation without contacts exchange, and that I am still glad meeting her. At this point I eject.
She looked very attracted to me and sad that I am leaving, she wanted me to stay. Probably the bf line was true, but she loved the attention. She is HB7 and probably doesn’t get too much of it.
Once I am done with this set I go back to my wing. Later on another lever of the mall I make my third and last approach for the day, get bf line right upfront but joke with her that even with bf she is still allowed to receive a compliment. Delivered my opener, asked her what she up to, and wished her a good day (she was slightly in rush and I just wanted to see that I can hold her on the spot and engage in conversation).
I try to find more targets, but being in bad shape doesn’t help, and the mall is slow. I miss few targets and we call it a day. My wing did not manage to find any targets either.
P.S: Will see how I feel today, if my cold doesn’t go away than I will take a day off. Health comes first.
Approaches: 3 approaches in span of 1 hour and 15 minutes.
I calculated my life time approaches, and it is 283, for some reason I was thinking I am in area of 400.
I noticed that I started being able to pinpoint exact moment when chick realizes that there a confident guy in front of her and her attraction goes over the top. It is interesting to see that it is not happening only during the opener, but sometimes even in the middle of conversation, like 1-2 minutes after.
Now since I am going to sarge solo most of time, I will go for insta dates (couldn’t do it with the wing) in my good sets.