Short Session

I finish my work and go to the mall as me and my wing scheduled some sarging together (now days I will mostly sarge solo since my wing vacation is over).

I arrive at mall and feel like I got some cold, my head is dizzy, voice is weak and bones in pain, and I consider cancelling the session for a minute, but then decided against better judgment to stay.

My wing arrives and we start sarging. We walk a bit and I make my first approach very weakly and get blown very harshly, I get back to my wing and tell him today going to be a blown out day, but it is going to be fun.

Shortly after, I spot a cute Asian girl and go after her. She stops, I open her and she cannot hear me, no problem, I close proximity to her, give her better eye contact and spell my opener again, she smiles so it is all good. Most of time when I fail to deliver opener or girl doesn’t hear me, it means she will blow me out.

We start talking it goes very well and she is slightly attracted, but then when I try to apply a kino I get that weird vibe from her and step back with the kino. Minute after I tell her let’s move on a side because we are right on the people path. We move and I notice a big increase in her attraction to me, it is funny how much as a noobs we underestimate such small things like mini isolation and leading. Five minutes into conversation I go for number close and get a bf line, I go with my usual routine against it but it is no go, she offers Facebook and when I decline offers to take my phone and say she will message me. I am sick and tired, I just tell her it is ok to finish this conversation without contacts exchange, and that I am still glad meeting her. At this point I eject.

She looked very attracted to me and sad that I am leaving, she wanted me to stay. Probably the bf line was true, but she loved the attention. She is HB7 and probably doesn’t get too much of it.

Once I am done with this set I go back to my wing. Later on another lever of the mall I make my third and last approach for the day, get bf line right upfront but joke with her that even with bf she is still allowed to receive a compliment. Delivered my opener, asked her what she up to, and wished her a good day (she was slightly in rush and I just wanted to see that I can hold her on the spot and engage in conversation).

I try to find more targets, but being in bad shape doesn’t help, and the mall is slow. I miss few targets and we call it a day. My wing did not manage to find any targets either.

P.S: Will see how I feel today, if my cold doesn’t go away than I will take a day off. Health comes first.

Recap:

Approaches: 3 approaches in span of 1 hour and 15 minutes.

I calculated my life time approaches, and it is 283, for some reason I was thinking I am in area of 400.

I noticed that I started being able to pinpoint exact moment when chick realizes that there a confident guy in front of her and her attraction goes over the top. It is interesting to see that it is not happening only during the opener, but sometimes even in the middle of conversation, like 1-2 minutes after.

Now since I am going to sarge solo most of time, I will go for insta dates (couldn’t do it with the wing) in my good sets.

Strong day, weak vibe.

Note: This is a Saturday report.

I been talking a lot lately about model I want to implement in my day game out of all PUA’s I finally found the one who I think is good.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yZfLGTOyi2g&feature=player_detailpage

Imho he is the first one who is out of all PUA I watched has a lot of the stuff together. He is also seems to be short in height and older (so his game is adjusted to it).

Anyways back to the FR.

As in previous Saturday I woke up somewhat late, texted my wing to ask if he comes out today with me and after getting a confirmation shortly after left to the mall.

I arrive at the mall feeling more tired than usual (bad sleeping habits, need seriously take care of it), go through my usual pre sarging routine and my wing texts me that he will be late and I decide to start on my own.

I spot the first set right after I start my saring, she is HB8.5 and a tall one, she stand and looks on jewellery and I approach her directly. She responded very well, but I was tired and failed to bring dominance and frame control, so shortly after I eject.

My wing arrives and we start sarging together. I make my second approach and get blown out; she smiles but goes into the store, I have no desire to go after her into store. We keep walking and short time after I spot my next target who is a Latin chick with curly long hair; I approach her when she is on her way out of the mall.

Me: hi

Her: hi [and gives me IOI right away by leaning strongly to me and playing with the hair]

Me: can I give you a compliment?

Her: (starting laughing nervously) I have a bf and I am socially awkward [she said it as it is and laughed]

Me: even if you have bf and awkward, I still want to give you a compliment

She completely stops, gives me strong eye contact and everything about her screams that she is highly attracted to me. I deliver my opener and without knowing how to capitalize on her attraction (needed to pull her in some kino and insta date), shortly after I stupidly eject.

I re-join my wing and we go down the escalator, I spot gorgeous redhead who gives me an eye contact while I decide if I should approach her, she actually stops nearby, and I know it is an approach invitation. I approach her, she responds well and we starting the conversation. As far as post opener thing goes I did a great job, but afterward I failed to attract her and ended up having boring conversation (my fault). Despite everything I went to number close and received fake number lol (I had a feeling it was fake, but still sent a message and some other chick told me it is wrong number and never write there again).

I and my wing keep walking and it takes some long time until I find another target to approach. She is a Latin chick a bit taller from me and actually came to Toronto for visit from another city that is 2 hours away. As with all my previous sets I opened her strongly and she hooked, had a 7 minutes conversation with her and attempted to go for number close to which she honestly told me that since we both from different cities she is simply not interested. I thank her for the honestly wish her good day and we part (it was actually refreshingly nice to hear honest answer). Obviously another city is not a problem, the problem is that I did not manage to create any attraction. I will blame it on being really tired that day.

After ejecting and walking around for the next 5 minutes, I spot HB who looks really good, but seems to be a hired gun. I tell my wing I don’t really care and going to say hi to her. I approach her strongly and open her. The instinct was not wrong and she is a hired gun, actually a manager of one of the stores and is out to recruit more employees. I ended up having a 5 minutes conversation with her that included blatant flirting and some decent kino (probably the best game for this day), but she was not interested. At some point she excused herself and fleet to approach some group of youngsters to recruit them (not much I could do as she is working), I am re-joining my wing when I see her coming back. I leave the wing again and go reopening her by asking what happened with those people she approached. After that I tell her that I am going to let her work and go for number close. She says she would love but has a live in bf that actually came with her from Michigan to Canada. I wish her good day and eject this time for good.

The next set was a girl who was from Montreal and while showing an attraction she did not speak English well, so I wished her a good day.

It is about 5.25PM I feel that I had enough practice for today and my wing had a huge AA and got blown out entire day, he got so upset that the last hour he actually said he had enough and he is going to take break for the rest of the day, so basically he was walking with me to give me company, but was not approaching.

We are on our way to subway and still in mall when I spot this gorgeous Asian chick and try to push my wing to approach her; he says no he had enough, so I tell him I am going to approach even though she is looking so bitchy. I go after her and say hi to her, she doesn’t even looks on me and completely cold and just keep walking. I continue walk with her for the next 2-3 meters and close proximity so that we are shoulder to shoulder and almost bumping into each other and I repeat my hi again with same confidence and strong projection. She briefly looks on me and I see her warmly smiling for a second before she hides it, but she still keeps going, so I just eject and go back to the wing.

Later on when we had debrief about our day, I told him that he needed to approach her because it doesn’t matter if she brushes you off, what matter is to take your chances and go for it.

Recap:

All my sets I opened very strongly, not aggressively but very strongly and confidently, very happy to hook up 6 sets out of 8. Out of those 6 I went for # close of 3. I think going out 5 days a week and perfecting the approach starts to give its fruition, even my wing commented that I seems to improve and to do amazing well today.

Been very tired and the vibe after successful opening was very off, need to get more rest. Damn it is easier for me to approach chick than force myself to sleep lol

Quick but interesting session

Not many approaches today (only 4 in 1.5 hour span), but all of them interesting.

After sarging for few last weeks with the wing today I went to sarge solo (my wing had some stuff to do and couldn’t come).

I arrive at the mall and go through my usual routine before starting sarging. Once I am done I start walking, I spot some chick standing on a side and decide to open her as my warm up set, I am heading confidently over to her when in very last second I realized I already opened her in the past. Shit, it happens to me third time in 2 last weeks!

I change my opener and simply tell her that she looks familiar, she denies, I than say I think I met her at the mall and gave her a compliment, she denies again but smiles and says she just here waiting for someone. I wish her good day and feeling bummed eject. When I go on escalator I see guy beside her and they look on me and she is smiling, I look back and smile as well.

My state is now affected and in not good way, as I said it is third time I bump into chick that I already opened.

I keep walking and looking for the next target and try to recover; it doesn’t go well and takes me about 30-40 minutes to shake the feeling off, but after a while I am ok again.

At some point while standing and re framing my state I spot an SHB that stops near by, she she first looks around than gives me a deep look right into my eyes, than turns away, than gives me another look. I look on her calmly and thinking about approaching her, when she suddenly turns to another direction and starts walking fast. I guess somewhere inside her it clicked that this guy actually confident enough to approach her lol

HB8.5

I spot her passing right in middle of the mall; I close the distance and open her. She is very good looking but very shy and inexperienced.  I deliver my opener and keep talking and she stays to talk with me. Five minutes into conversation I remember that I am alone today and can actually extract her for the insta date.

Me: listen, I been here for a while and actually on my way to grab coffee, come with me.

Her: [smiling] I am meeting somebody

Me: it is going to take 5 minutes at most and then I will let you go [said with smile]

Her: the person can come any second now

Me: I have an idea! How about we meet another time and then have a coffee?

Her: the guy I am meeting is my bf, I cannot

Her: I am very sorry about it, but I was not sure if it is just friendly chat or you interested in me

Me: I said you that you cute and that I wanted to come and talk to you, I obviously find you attractive [laughing]

Her: [gives a big smile]

Me: but either way I am glad to meet you, and you are really cute have a good day.

I eject and feel good about the interaction, the eye contact was strong, I applied kino and been in her personal space from the very first moment.

I continue to walk and decide I will stay until I make at least 4 approaches, otherwise being here is just waste of my time.

I meet somebody and we walk together and talk when I spot another target. I approach her and during the approach I do something I never did before.

HB8

Me: hi

Her: hi

Me: can I give you a complement?

She smiles but turns and starts walking away. I stay behind look on her and go right after her and reopen her lol

Me: you don’t need to run just because I said hi [laqughing]

Me: I only wanted to give you a compliment. You cute and I wanted to say hi to you [big smile]

Her: [gives me a big smile, but keeps walking]

Me: so what brings you here?

Her: I am shopping

Me: you look like on a mission to buy a whole mall [laughing]

Her: [laughing]

At this point I realize she is no go and wish her a good day and eject. Again been masculine, good eye contact (she was not keeping it trough) and kino right from the start with very confident body language and loud voice and being right in her personal space (our shoulders were touching). I am very happy with that approach, even though it did not go anywhere.

I walk just a few matters when I spot hot blonde and my last set for today. I go to her and open her strongly and very confidently. She takes headphones off but keeps walking, I start walking with her even though I know it is very bad idea to chase and I will lose the set. We walk and talk for a while, I joke on her and tease her and the whole time she is smiling and I am right there in her space. At the end she says, I am sorry but I already have one man (I took it as compliment, basically means I projected masculinity in very clear way), I wish her good day and we go separate ways.

Recap:

Not much to say beside that I did every single point that I outlined for myself in my previous FRs, and the result and my performance was for sure above my usual  average.

Another slow day

I have been thinking a bit and probably soon will start to go for mass approaches for the next 2-3 weeks. It is kind of dilemma because if I do too many approaches than I cannot give my best to each approach, but then all those things I want to implement will take a long time to implement unless I don’t try to make them enough times. I have not decided yet, but that is my line of thinking for now.

Anyways, back to the FR (this is going to be a short one).

I arrive at the mall and as it became usual thing meeting my wing and we start walking.

As we walking I comment about how mall in those preschool days are very slow. My wing makes an approach and I am still looking for mine. We spot a very good looking Asian girl and I point to him and tell him to approach, he gives me an excuses and I tell him if he doesn’t approach than I will do. We are both laughing and he dares me to do so (I usually don’t approach Asian chicks), I look in her direction and think for a second how would be a best way to open her, than give her a chase an open her, she is very warm and responsive but gives me a bf line and soon enough I just eject. I go back and tell my wing that now he got some competition for Asian chicks and any time he gives me an excuses I will do the approach (usually I approach white chicks and he approaches Asian ones) lol

We keep walking and an hour later I am with 4 approaches in which 3 were decent sets (I mean girl stayed and talked at least a little bit). My wing does a good job as well and most of his sets stay and give him a good response after initially almost walking away. We discuss between ourselves that yes ploughing seems to be a solution but making approach a right way is important as well.

As we continue to walk I make an eye contact with some chick, she looks me into eyes, and then takes her eyes down and then look me into eyes again. I decide it is Approach invitation and go talk to her. She opens very well and gives me mad attraction signs; unfortunately I blank out and let her go.

As per usual I had a funny blow out. I spot some chick who gave me an eye contact, so I give her a chase an open her.

Me: hi

Her: (nods and looks on me)

Me: can I give you a compliment?

Her: I am from France

She did not even took her headphones out lol

Around 7PM we call it a day and leave the mall. All in all I made 6 approaches in span of 2 hours, with about 2 blow outs and 4 hooked sets. I hope once school starts the mall will become live again because this week it’s been fairly bad.

Recap:

I still open weak sometimes and don’t project myself strongly.

I keep forgetting strong eye contact and kino.

My ploughing seems to get better.

I am still not completely relaxed during my approach and because of this my mind goes blank when the conversation starts.

Slow day.

I arrive at the mall and grab cup of coffee as per my usual pre sarge ritual and wait for my wing. He is a bit late as usual.

He arrives and we start walking, the mall is extremely slow, I mean there are enough people, but not people who I or my wing would like to approach. I am not sure what the deal maybe it is because last week before school is starts.

We still don’t worry as we sure we going each to do at least 6-7 approaches and none of us planning on mass approaching, instead we both agree that we want to make each approach count.

Unfortunately there not many targets we end up walking an hour without spotting a likeable girl. At some point me and my wing stand and I spot two girls and tell my wing that it is too bad they are together, I wish they split. Sure enough they stand and talk and one of them goes into store and another continues to walk. I laugh to my wing that god heard my prayers and go to approach her lol

She is very tall (I am 5’6 only) and about 6’2, for sure one of the tallest girls I approached. I stop her confidently and remind myself to look into eyes when I do the opener luckily she has those green cat eyes and it magnetize me, I deliver opener and she open up nicely. She is a tourist who came to Canada just a week ago; she is Slavic and will be in Canada for a year, she is in the mall and looking for jobs. In the middle of conversation that goes well her friend comes out of stores, she gives us a look and warmly smiles and gives us space by standing some distance away. Unfortunately I am not comfortable closing her around her friend (stupid thinking) and let her go.

Than good thing happens and mall comes to the life a bit better, in the next hour and half I make another 6 approaches plus one indirect when me and wing were eating and there were hired gun sitting and eating nearby (spent 10 minutes of eating by having conversation with her).

As per usual had 1-2 really bad blow outs but overall managed to hook 50% of sets in a dead place that had no good target selections. One of the good sets were some Spanish chick who just came to Canada a month ago, she did not speak English and I had no choice but let her go, my wing said that when she was leaving she had a big beaming smile on her face.

Around 8PM I and my wing decide to call it a day and we leave.

RECAP:

Unfortunately I was slacking in kino and eye contact department, going to make it a point to do them tomorrow when I am in field.

As well, noticed that I am doing the approaches itself slightly wrong and many times open chick being way too from the side or from the back, those are generally the ones that lead to bad blow outs.

Another thing noticed, sometimes I open weak, need to make sure I always open strong.