Sarging when tired.

The title pretty much says its all, that’s exactly how I feel regarding this FR.

I finish my work, walk outside and weather looks good. I am very tired and seriously feel some lack of sleep, but because entire week it’s been rainy and on Saturday I am going on week vacation, I decide to go and approach some girls.

By the time I arrive at park I barely move my legs I look around and find no girls. So I go and sit on the bench. Shortly after I see a girl walking with her bike and she goes to the far away bench. I let he sit, and take her book out, and couple minutes later I go to approach her.

HB7.5
I approach her directly from the front and open her with the question if there any coffee shops in the area, like second cup or starbacks. She says she doesn’t know.

Me: it is student area, there must be something. People need their caffeine and students especially (laughing)
Her: (laughing) yah I know and there probably some in smaller university building, but classes over now and it is all probably closed.
Me: it is 5:30PM only, not even really evening (looking on my watch).
Her: (starting to give few suggestions)
Me: yah I know those places, but was hoping to find something closer by.
Her: (says something I don’t remember)
Me: do you think it still going to rain today? The sky looks so clear
Her: I hope not! I like the weather like it now.

Few more words about weather, and I move conversation to what she is reading about, she says she doesn’t know because she just started to read and only red few first pages, but the author should be very interesting, and she tells me the author biography lol (right there I know she is well red and talking about literature and history and culture will be good idea)

At this stage, I just popped up into the sit and continued to talk about where she is from and what she study (she is in the last year of her political study). I make few jokes that maybe one day she will work for out prime minister or even replace him, she receives it well. I also made some qualifications about her possible future studies when she said she might go study law, to what I said that I always found lawyer women to be well read, confident and well-rounded over all. Joked as well how in USA and Canada for each engineer that graduates there are 10 lawyers that graduate, and how in China is opposite and for each lawyer there are 10 engineers . We both are laughing on the subject.

She asked many question about me and seemed to be interested, but I did not see any other IOI besides maybe making a strong eye contact from her during the conversation.

Eventually after some 17 minutes she asks what the time is, I tell her and she says she needs to go.

closing:
Me: listen I really enjoyed talking to you and you seems to be smart person, it doesn’t happens to me often. How do you feel about meeting for coffee and talk and getting to know each other ?
Her: yes, we can go for coffee
I take my phone out and as I am about to give it to her
Her: I actually don’t have mobile phone at all. I will give you an email
Me: (I cannot help and start laughing a lot) you are joking right
Me: (continuing to laugh and looking in phone where the hell the email column in contacts) I don’t even know if it has an email field in contact.

She leaves her email, we say byes.

Some self observations:
Over all I felt that I could do much better.

First of all sarging tired is bad, my energy was so low, that it is not even funny.
My conversation skills really improved in the way how I transition from topic to topic and with her there was not even one awkward silent moment. And she is not the first one in row with whom I had good conversation so it is solid progress there. However; she wanted to talk more, and my previous encounters they all wanted to talk more and open up more, I always end up talking more than them. This needs to be changed.

I still need to loosen up more in the way I talk, and make more jokes and give more energy reach vibe.

Need to work on closing on how to calibrate it better. Closing with this girl was completely of the chart and not congruent, the interaction was not even nearly close to suggest a meet up in such a strong way, it is completely unbalanced. I generally do much better when not tired, but it is for sure area I need to work on more.

I started on developing conversation mapping, I am not really making routines, but just few stories that will implement some attraction and qualification within them and will allow me to lead conversation into topics that I know well. So, this one is in progress as well.

his is a Friday report, I got an insta-date on Friday and day2 for Sunday, it is nice to see myself doing a progress.

Friday afternoon I finish work, outside looks ok and not raining, so I decide to go for short sarging session. I arrive at park and it is kind of dead. I walk around, smoke cigarette and notice that the park is slowly packing up with people.

HB7.5
Eventually I notice some cute student girl sits there alone and makes her homework. I approach her and ask he about park and some festival that supposed to happen over weekend.
Me: Hey, maybe you can help me out with something. Do you know why all those tents are here?
He: no I have no idea, sorry
Me: yah, I just been here yesterday and it all was empty, and today it is full with all those tents
Her: there some running marathons that going to happen, maybe it is for one of them.
Me: really, I had no idea, what’s it all about?
Her: (goes into somewhat long explanation)
At this point I notice ring on her finger and it is clearly some kind of engagement ring or maybe even wedding one. I decide to keep the conversation for few more second.
Me: what kind of homework you are doing? Don’t answer, let me guess
Her: ok
Me: I think it is psychology or biology?
Her: yes it is biology (laughing).
Me: yah you have that smart look to you, it could be only two of those (laughing)
Her: I wish I was that smart.
At this point I say thanks and wish her good day and eject.

Overall the approach came as low level on energy and I never really spiked interest or attraction of any kind.

Hb6
After first approach while I am not happy with that, however; my AA goes way down. I sit on the bench and I am looking for the next girl to approach. I spot that tall blonde sitting far away, I cannot see her face, but her body definitely looks ok to me. I stand up and walk to her. I was surprised that during this entire walk (it was quite a distance) my AA did not strike me. I approach her with same question as previous girl and I realize she is old, like 45-48 old. I finish my question talk about the subject for a second more, thanks her for the help and eject.

This approach as a previous one was very low on energy.

Hb7.5
I feel tired and decide to call it a day; I know I am tired and the rest of my approaches will come out same way.

There is family of 5 walking in front of me. And in front of them lone wolf with amazingly stunning body. I want to approach her but kind of worried about those people. Then I decide screw it, I am going to do, I have nothing to lose only to win.

I approach her with same opener as with the one I approached two others. She texts something, and doesn’t notice me, or just pretends not noticing me and ignores my opener. I repeat it again and she turns around, answers I talk about subject for a few seconds and then transition to if she enjoys the weather today.

It appears she is from west coast and came here to work for a summer and will only be here for the next 3 month. After initial difficulty opening her it seemed like she put her guards down and we had nice conversation, she laughed and played with her hair and did other IOI. We coming out of park, she clearly waiting for somebody and starts to look, her focus on concentration breaks and I know I either go for #close now or it will all be ruined. I also realize that conversation been up only 1.5 minutes so far and while I did good job on attraction and made qualifications on her current and lawyer studies and job inspiration, I did not have enough time for the comfort at all.

Closing:
Me: give me your number and maybe we both will find some time for coffee.
Her: I actually have a bf.
Me: it is ok, I am not trying to steal you from him, just maybe take you for coffee
She thinks for a while debating with herself…
Her: I would still feel uncomfortable.
Me: (wish her good day and that it was good to meet her)

And then, she said something strange.
Her: I hope to see you around here.

I am not really sure what her last sentence meant, did she want me to persist on the phone, or did she just felt bad thinking that she rejected me. This can go both ways.

HB6.5
I walk out of the park walk a little bit and then decide to grab some hotdog to eat. As I am sitting to eat I spot some cute girl sitting reading a book, of course I sit close enough to be able to open her.

I open her almost immediately by asking what she reads, I get shy smile and she says she doesn’t know lol, I tell her “you read the book how come you don’t know what you read? lol”, she doesn’t answers and just smiles.

I decide to finish my food and then if she still there I will reopen her again.

I am done with the food so without even thinking about it I start talk to her again:
Me: you know by not answering what book you reading you made me really curious, now I need to know what are you reading.
Her: (smiles and shows me book “eat, pray and love”)
Me: isn’t there movie already for this book?
Her: yes I think so
Me: tell me is the book same as the movie or the differences are huge?
Her: (smiling again) I don’t know.
Me: what do you mean you don’t know? You finished half book now!
Her: (laughing) the women still in India.

From there I grab my stuff and sit closer to her, she closes her book completely and we starting to talk. It appears that she is student from Germany, came here to study English language and originally she is Greek. Essentially her English is not that good and I need to calibrate my jokes and sometimes repeat them or explain in more simple words. Nerveless, the interaction goes well and I even remembered to apply kino .

In area of 20 minutes into the interaction I moved her to another place within same area. So I guess it is insta date.

I will not write whole interaction here but I think that I did good job for attraction, qualification and since her being from foreign country I made sure I build good comfort . The whole interaction lasted about 1.5 hours.

Eventually I go for the #close, and she says she doesn’t have one, I say “well, then how we going to meet again?”, “lets meet next time right here!” I actually believe her on the phone part, she gave me her weekend schedule in lots of details and repeated herself that meeting would be good.

Walking from this approach I felt like I am not enough attracted to her, and was thinking about flaking on her lol

Update on day2:
I showed 5 minutes before time, she was not there. After 15 minutes of waiting on her I just left the place.

After I leave I went to the coffee shop, I walk in and the place is packed, there only one place that is free. As I go to grab the table about to put my stuff I notice this Middle Eastern girl who I opened last time, and who gave me attitude lol. She was sitting right beside this table.

I just did not feel like dealing with her again and just left lol.

Not happy with myself, opened 3 girls but could definitely do much better and I expect myself to do better. I will describe only one of the approaches as the other ones was nothing interesting.

I definitely need to start making direct approaches again. Will start to do it on sated sets, until I feel comfortable doing it again.

Went to park yesterday and got huge AA, there was no sated lone wolfs except one HB8, and she was sitting all alone in somewhat secluded part of the park, but my AA kicked and until I stood there fighting with myself she obviously left.
Anyways, park did not work for me yesterday so I went to coffee shop to have some coffee before I head home. That is where I opened the 3 girls. I arrive at coffee shop there is no much people, but all the tables are taken beside one that located right beside some young hb8.5. I take myself coffee and sit and try to immerse myself into the place.

Hb8.5
This one is an interesting Middle Eastern looking HB slim with brown eyes, darkish skin and long black hair, I am unsure about the age, but she is young, I decide to open her anyways for a pure practice as I am frustrated with myself. She also had earphones.
Me: Hey, can you help me out?! How do you connect to the internet in this place?
Her: starts to explain and goes into her computers and gives me really detailed explanation.

I do something on my iphone, turn to her.

Me: thanks, it worked.

(2 sec later)

Me: tell me is this place generally busier than that?
Her: yes It generally is.

(5 sec later)

Me: damn, your computer so small.
Her: (annoyingly) speak up, I cannot hear you (bitch lol)
Me: (looking straight into her face, smiling to her and calmly repeating myself)

She is also pretty loud and people start to look on us. I keep my calm and stay unaffected, but also realize I come fairly often to this place so it might be better to finish this conversation. But I decided to continue.

Her: (laughing) yes, but it is very convenient to carry it around.
Me: and you typing so fast
Her: (smiling)
Me: you must be practicing a lot (laughing)
Her: oh yah (laughing)

At this point I feel like I recovered social part of this interaction and decide to stop it and I also feel she is going to give me more attitude if we continue to talk.

Five minutes go by she starting packing her stuff and about to leave. She finishes to pack and leaving as she stepping from her table she half turns around and with slightly bitchy tone:

Her: have a good one
(it came completely unexpectedly. I cannot help myself but start smiling on whole thing. I look her into eyes)
Me: thank you. Enjoy the weather (it was one of the first very warm and sunny days)

She couldn’t believe it, I guess she completely did not expect me to be calm and smiling and probably even more did not expect me to make such a strong eyes contact after this.

She turned her body to face me completely, stopped for a second looked on me, and suddenly her look was not bitchy any more lol, even I did not expect it lol

Her: thank you.

She turns around; as she walks away she stops in middle, thinks about something for few seconds, than continues to walk. She reaches door, turns around again, gives me somewhat longish eye contact and walks out.

I think she liked how I handled it and got attracted, or at least I would like to think so because it did look like that.

Later on I opened 2 other girls, but there is nothing interesting to even write about it.

Went out yesterday and had blast. Concentrated on having fun and being easy on my toughs and just say anything funny during interaction that comes to my mind, as well coming with slightly higher energy into sets, being positive and smiling. Also watched few pickup videos and every time I see PUA does their approaches, it is always very casual and they talk to girl like they know her for years. So, that’s all I cared about in my yesterday approaches, numbers where not important since it is only my second time going out after a year of break since I did day game .

As in the last time, I used my camera to open girls by asking them to take a pic of me, it is allows me to engage them in some activity and easily change topics in middle of it and then just stay and talk. It is also allows easily to introduce kino when you give her instructions you can simply touch her hand and point her fingers to the buttons.

Overall I opened 7 sets in period of 2 hour and most of my interactions went very well.

#1. This is an older woman that works in one of the offices (but not same office) at my work place. Met her on one of my smoking breaks, she just happened to be in proximity and I opened her with how gorgeous weather is. We talked a little bit about weather, working area, and clothing’s for spring; I complimented her on her dress and fashion taste. Nothing is special here, just normal social conversation. I finished my cigarette wished her good day and left. Saw her afterwards few times and in each of them she gave me good eye contact and big smile. Obviously since she works at same building as me, it was not pickup.

So, I finish my work and decide to go to the lake and check what happening there. I like this location as being 34 I know that usually girls who come by themselves close to the evening to the lake most of them going to be 24+, it gives me the convenience of not to worry about their age, so this location is my favorite.

#2. I arrive at lake and look around and spot this Asian girl who sits all by herself. I open her with my camera opener, there are people all around us, and me being dressed somewhat bikerish definitely draws attention. The girl is polite and shy, during the pic she takes her huge glasses off and I realize that her face is not as pretty as her body lol, I wish her to enjoy the weather and move on.

#3. Young couple I approach them to warm myself up, the guy is completely drunk but he is nice and tries his best to take best possible shot of picture (he even stood on his knees to take a pic lol), we joking a lot, they are very friendly, only his gf is very strange. She is hitting on me blatantly right in front of him, wtf. I evaluate situation for a second and decide I cannot do it to him; I just don’t have the heart when somebody treats me that good. It was short interaction, but they both had fun and the air exploded few times with 3 of us laughing loudly. After I left, I realized why she behaved that way, by treating her guy so well and handling him so well I actually displayed DHV without even realizing it. I wish them good day, leave and my mood is up big time.

#4. Tall blonde, about hb7.5 around 30 years old, she is sitting on a side far away from everybody on bench in front of firefighter’s station. As I walk by I open her that people do like to be alone sometimes but she took it to extreme. We are both laughing. I throw more jokes about how she needs not to run away from all the good people who sit on other side. She loving it and clearly enjoying it. We are having strong eye contact. I feel I reached hook point and as I am thinking about sitting down on the bench, there bunch of firefighter’s coming out, they look on me and one of them give me death stare lol. I start thinking maybe she is his wife or they related. The whole situation puts huge smile on my face, I turn to her wish her to have a good day and enjoy the sun and leave.

#5. I walk to look for another girl and hope to have some more lasting interactions than the ones before now. I spot gorgeous Asian girl who sits all by herself, she is really stunning, very tall and easily HB8.5, we notice each other and I realize she is basically starring on me. I feel like approaching but hesitate and pass her, damn. I stop and decide to approach her, take my camera out, take few shots of the lake, turn around and walk straight to her. She turns, sees me, and her face is like oh no another damn afc coming to talk lol. I approach her and ask her to take pic of me, something in my attitude must be changed her original thinking, because suddenly she is all nice to me and smily. She takes camera I stand in pose and tell her to make this shot count and give her best try lol, she finishes, I take the camera back and say that I am impressed and she is real pro and start asking her if she took photography classes or something. Despite the interaction goes well and we both smiling, she answers and tell me to have a good day (wait second lady, I am not finished yet lol).

She lightens her cigarette, my body is facing away from her, and I tell her to give me lighter and joking that she is not the only one who smokes in this city lol. She answers that generally she is the only one who smoking and laugh. From there I just continued to talk to her and joke and we had nice 10 minutes conversation that went very well.

At one point I asked what she does there and said just waiting for friend, like an idiot I insisted to know who the friend is, she hesitate to answer but of course it is a bf lol, I seriously should stop asking this question! Feel like such an idiot.

I did not go for # close because I had so much fun that I simply forgot about it lol. When I was leaving she told me that she is always in this spot and if I come around, I should come and talk to her.

#6. I continue to walk and see set of 2 girls, one is ugly but the other one short blond looks very good to me. I approach them and as I open blonde is leaving and I left with the ugly one lol, she takes my pic and i don’t even try to talk to her, just told her thanks and left.

#7. I keep walking and looking for more girls. I reach very crowded area. I notice some hb7.5 that sits all by herself. Of course I take my camera out, take few shots, turn around and ask her to take pic of me. She takes one, doesn’t like it, takes another one, doesn’t like it again, I joke that I impressed by her efforts and we both laugh. Eventually I take the camera from her and launch into conversation about what kind of book she reads there and we continue talk from there.

She was the best set for the evening, very receptive and was adding fair amount into conversation with her own stories. We spoke about everything. At some point I told her straight that I did not really needed the pics and basically used it as an excuse because I was thinking she is absolutely cute and I felt like I want to say hi to her. She started blushing and laughing. Obviously I blamed everything on her and said I am the one who is victim here lol and that she cannot now start being shy on me, she loved it a lot and ate it from the big spoon.

It appears that she is from Winnipeg and visiting bf here and she is leaving tomorrow. She said she is visiting friend at the beginning and only after me stupidly digging she confessed it is bf. I am seriously dumb for doing same mistake again and again lol

I spoke with her probably 50 minutes easily. And we spoke about everything even about sex and nudity lol. Went for the # close at the end, she weakly said she probably should not do it. I think I could easily take her phone, but for some reason I felt like letting her go, I figured out I just made her day or maybe even a year, and she is from small city so probably never been approached from the guy, and I decided to leave her with this gift and stories that she will tell to her gf’s about visiting Toronto lol.

I walk a little bit more on the beach and don’t see anyone worthy to approach, it is either couples or grandma’s lol.

#8. The last approach of the day happened in park close by my home, I just went there to see how crowded it is and if it suitable for sarging. The place is definitely good. Originally I did not plan to open no one especially that now time was close to 9PM and it was visibly getting dark (I never got good reaction opening girl at night on the street) and I am also very tired by now and just want to get home but don’t feel like walking. I see two very cute students’ girl who sits by themselves, and I just want and ask for directions. Despite being low on energy, the both lightened up when I approached, and one of them stood and started show me the direction. She was extremely friendly and was making cute faces to me. I left right after directions. I am still unsure if this cute one with faces really got attracted to me, or was just scared and tried her best to be supper friendly.

Basically this post is empty and I am posting it for sake to keep eye on my own progress.

As planed I went out on Saturday afternoon. Took camera with myself to use it as opener and do some pics to use it for my online game as well.

Overall I approached 4 girls and gamed one hired gun at coffee shop. The hired gun actually was the only girl with whom I reached hook point and who reacted positively, and once we finished conversation at her counter, she later came around and we continued to talk. I did not go for close because I did not want to put her in tough social spot in front of her co-worker and all the people around who suddenly dropped anything they did and just blatantly looked on us flirting with each other. Even myself I was not comfortable closing her in environment with so many people around. Not being in game for so long did it damage I guess.

Later on I went to the lake and approached 4 girls in the row; I basically did not care how they look or how old they are. I just approached every single girl I saw on my way with my camera opener. The only memorable out of all of them is the first one, she was sitting by herself, hb7.5 about 26-27 years old, she was very shy, smiled a lot and was down for more interaction, unfortunately for me I couldn’t make transition happening and I ejected.

The rest of the girls I had very short interaction and failed to transition again.

Over all if I need to rate my AA from 0 to 10, I would say it was in area of 3-4.

I definitely plan to hammer my approaching and will go out today, probably another day during this week, as well have Sunday planned out for approaching again.

P.S: started my day today with opening some older women and having with her nice social interaction and talk without having any game in mind.