Been long time again.
I decided to update this blog to give some details about current situation of things.
I been not doing much of the pickup in last 6 month and still renting apartment with my friend, but soon will be moving out to live on my own and planning to restart my practice. During this time I tried to keep myself social and worked on other areas of my life mostly wealth concerned areas lol
Yesterday I needed to buy some clothes so I went to the mall and decided to actually take time and interact with involvement. I opened like 2-3 girls with non direct opener and while the interaction was positive I stumbled and did not know how to proceed (being rusty after all this time) and they all been over very fast.
Than I walk into American Eagle store. It’s holiday and there so many people around that it’s actually difficult to move around. I make my way to the jeans section look around and cannot find the type I am looking for. Time to engage some hired gun . I notice some HB 8.5 that’s working there, she is younger than me, and taller than me and she stands with some other costumer helping her. I come around and stand close by waiting for my time. We make few eyes contact and each one of them I finish with smile eventually when she looks on me she smiles, I feel the tension. We still not interacting as the old lady customer takes her time. The customer gone and it’s my time now.
I come closer make a point of having a strong eye contact and ask my question about jeans she says give me few minutes. But continues to stand around and turns her body around to face mine, it felt like I snapped her from everything. I stack again not sure how to proceed (she clearly interested) and to break silence start talk to her about job (yah I know boring, almost slapped myself once I realized how stupid it is), she answers and smiles. It’s feels that tension is going away like a water trough fingers. Shortly after she starts to move and find me what I am looking for. I say something stupid again and pretty much kill it all.
As a conclusion good thing is I had no AA at all, I am not sure if I would have balls to make a direct approach but not direct was not problems a lot. It’s seems like i got extremely rusty and it’s a time to prepare some stack routines (maybe even one liners to break the weird silence).
Once I move out (should happen in end of February) I will be back and practicing again.